Who's Really Calling the Shots in Your Life? Understanding the Locus of Evaluation

Ever found yourself inexplicably picking a fight with a perfectly lovely partner? Or perhaps you've noticed a pattern of gravitating towards relationships that feel… well, a bit turbulent? You're not alone. Sometimes, even when we consciously yearn for a healthy and fulfilling romance, our unconscious minds can steer us towards familiar, albeit unhealthy, patterns. It's a perplexing phenomenon, but one that psychotherapy research sheds valuable light on.